tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4861708830021951529.post5731593836985079018..comments2023-03-25T20:13:41.952+08:00Comments on My Life Story: Some thoughtsA Place to Chowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01252295676959952091noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4861708830021951529.post-56700646225760501612008-08-03T14:16:00.000+08:002008-08-03T14:16:00.000+08:00There will always be loop holes (what if) in a rel...There will always be loop holes (what if) in a relationship. One has to try to find out with a tinge of rationality where the relationship is going. With that in mind, the selection of partner can go a long way. <BR/><BR/>Weighing the pros and cons to a "what-if" can help in a decision-making. The bottomline is whether you will be happy.A Place to Chowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01252295676959952091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4861708830021951529.post-25782649196167600332008-07-28T11:26:00.000+08:002008-07-28T11:26:00.000+08:00I used to think that there is no reason to love so...I used to think that there is no reason to love someone, you either love or you don't. But from painful experiences, it seems that even though there is no explanation when the feelings happened, there are many factors which determine whether the love can sustain.<BR/><BR/>What if you fall for someone only to find out he / she is unavailable? <BR/><BR/>What if you fall for someone only to realise he / she is someone undesirable? <BR/><BR/>What if you fall for someone only to find out how "ugly" the person is?<BR/><BR/>In this case, will love triumph over everything? Or do you have to be rational and start thinking whether it is worth loving, whether you want to continue holding on? Or worse, what if it is just one-sided and not mutual? <BR/><BR/>At the end of the day, it all boils down to what one can really accept and tolerate. If one is willing to live life loving the person without any returns, good for him. But for those who want to have their own families, who want to be with someone responsible, chances are they just have to let go and move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4861708830021951529.post-80853396669373021212008-07-28T10:23:00.000+08:002008-07-28T10:23:00.000+08:00I agree with Mr Chow... When you are in love with ...I agree with Mr Chow... When you are in love with something or someone. There is no particular reason. Its just a feeling of completeness, a feeling of loving it as a whole. For those who insist there must a reason, let me ask you: "If this reason changes one day, does your love change too? If yes, I guess you have to question yourself on the quality of your love then?"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13900876605953155964noreply@blogger.com